Why do people leave you? Your Personal truth connects with it:

Shamaz Abraham
2 min readApr 6, 2022

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I’ve not much knowledge about the deep reason behind Why people leave you. I’m vulnerable to sharing my example with you.

I don’t know whether people’s intentions leave me or not, but I know the action that degrades me in front of others.

That action brings me down and less effective in front of others. So, eventually, I started to think that others want to leave me.

I lied often to others. I do it with the intention to avoid a certain level of emotional pain. I may experience that emotional pain while sharing the truth.

So, I never take the risk with the truth. I take support from lies. No doubt, later on, I speak the truth as the necessary time comes.

It makes me a sense of the less effective person in others’ eyes. Now I realize that every person has flaws.

So, I decided to accept them. As I become older, I mustered up the courage to at least try to speak the truth.

I still lied sometimes with the purpose to avoid unwanted emotions, especially in front of others.

I’m happy and appreciate my progress in speaking the truth. It’s willpower to leave the paradise of fantasies and be brave enough to pass through adversities.

In my experience, people leave me most because of my lies. Besides, other poor social interactions have a direct connection with people leaving.

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Shamaz Abraham
Shamaz Abraham

Written by Shamaz Abraham

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